Betty Floyd, GPC Student

 

Aunt Lillie

Aunt Lillie was a legend that was talked about at family gatherings. Because she did not work to support her self, or have children of her own, she was passed around from one family member to another.  Just the mentioned of Aunt Lillie’s name gave us kids nightmares. Aunt Lillie was an old, cruel, and prejudiced spinster, who was the family’s terror.

            I remember the time for her to live with our grandparents. The day of Aunt Lillie arrival is branded in my memory forever. For years, my mother had told us stories of her childhood of how mean and prejudiced Aunt Lillie was to her. Aunt Lillie took an instant dislike to my mother at birth, and she was jealous of any attention her brother, my grandfather, gave to his wife or kids.  At every chance, Aunt Lillie got out of my grandmother’s eyesight, and she would pinch and hit my mother and brothers. The car stopped and Aunt Lillie bounced out of the care as I stood in the doorway, trembling from fear, I was expecting to see a witch with a long hook nose. Aunt Lillie did not disappoint me, she immediately screamed, “get out of my way” child. Immediately she ruled my grandparents’ home as if it was her own.  She told use how to act, what and when to eat, and what time were to eat. Some days Aunt Lillie would not give us any food at all. She was also violent. I remember her swinging a broom at the back of her head as I ran out of the kitchen. I still pause and look for Aunt Lillie before I enter my own kitchen. 

            I can still see Aunt Lillie standing in my grandparents’ kitchen, with high beam ceilings. The walls were lined with pots and pans. She always had a broom in one hand as she stirred the posts cooking on the black wood stove. Aunt Lillie was wearing an old nineteenth-century dress with about three petticoats underneath. Her head was covered with a black scarf. She wore an apron over her dress, and she wore black high top shoes with torn, brown, thick stockings. The smell of blackberry clobber bring back the image of this old, mean, bloated face lady who made my summer vacation at grandma’s a nightmare and it sent chills of terror down my spine.

            We soon found that Aunt Lillie could not read. She had never gone to school because the girls in her family were only allowed to stay home and take care of the men in the family.  She was so hateful to everyone that she did not want anyone to know that she was illiterate. She received a letter from her sister and holding it upside down we laughed at her. She would only let my grandfather read her letters to her. She also could not pronounce her words properly. She would say words “duh” for “the”. She was too proud to accept any help from us, and she would hit us with her broom if we offered her any help. The final show down came when Aunt Lillie sent all of the darker-skinned kids out of the kitchen and refused to give us any breakfast one morning. My grandmother heard her say that we were things instead of people, and we were not welcome in her brother’s home. That was the day my grandmother told Aunt Lillie she had to leave her home. Aunt Lillie had to go stay with another relative because she was so mean and prejudice against most of the grand kids.

            Aunt Lillie continued the same evil behavior until her death. She never changed her feeling toward us as we grew up in her presence. We continue to call her the witch lady.